Get closer (and spicier), without overthinking it.
Switching up your intimacy can be daunting — you don’t want to rock the boat, or make a fool of yourself, or hurt anyone’s feelings.
But the process can be not just straightforward, but hot and silly and fun and connective and trust-deepening.
Because a solid relationship isn’t a reason to keep everything the same. It’s actually the ideal foundation for creating the passion and pleasure you’ve only dreamed of.
DATE NIGHT, REIMAGINED
September 12th, 7pm CT (recording available)
You know there's more available for you and your partner in the bedroom.
But you're not quite sure how to get there without things going sideways. Just bringing up the conversation could cause your partner to feel like they’re not enough. Or maybe you’ve worked past that and agreed to try something new, but then one partner ends up frustrated and unsatisfied while the other ends up feeling micromanaged and like a failure… I get it. I’ve been in that exact scenario.
Thank god, there’s another way that doesn’t rely on anyone “getting it right”.
Imagine it’s Friday night…and you couldn’t be in a better mood.
Because it's Date Night: the night the two of you share new, spicy desires with each other, and then try them on for size.
You've been doing this every week for months now — sharing emails in the days before about what makes your pulse race, building a plan about what you want to try, and then playing for a couple breathless hours that leave you grinning for the rest of the week.
Not because it's a flawless romantic evening like some movie scene.
But because you both laugh a lot.
You learn new things about yourself and about each other.
You unlock realizations where there’s so much more love and heat for you two to revel in.
You explore new territory together, the anticipation and the thrill of the unknown making the relationship feel brand new again.
All the while, building a depth of trust that makes every next Date Night feel more like play and passion and liberation, and less like pressure.
Here’s the biggest hurdle to every Friday going like this:
Neither of you have language nor a framework for how to ask, how to negotiate, how to give feedback, and how to come back together afterwards, feeling closer no matter what happened.
So that’s what we’re doing in Date Night, Reimagined.
In 90 minutes, I'll guide you through:
asking for what you want in a way that gets your partner excited (rather than defensive)
giving feedback or setting a boundary without shutting anyone down
debriefing & reconnecting afterward so, even if you are never doing that again, you feel closer than before and the next time is even better
Date Night, Reimagined
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Date Night, Reimagined •
A 90-minute virtual workshop, recorded live.
Saturday, Sept 12th at 7PM CT
(Recording will be available 24hr after recording.)
$29 for you and your partner
A 90-minute workshop (Sept 12th at 7pm CT) where you’ll learn how to communicate about intimacy in a way that is playful, fun, and connective:
ask for what you want in a way that gets your partner excited (rather than defensive)
give feedback or setting a boundary without shutting anyone down
debrief & reconnect afterward so, even if you are never doing that again, you feel closer than before and the next time is even better
You’ll leave with a process you can use over and over again, on every Date Night, but also any time you need to communicate about something sensitive. You’ll also receive the recording, so you can go through the workshop as many times as you like.
"I was nervous going in, because I haven't done a lot of work like this. But the way [Kari] set it up made it feel easy and straightforward, while taking us deep… It was surprisingly fun. Way less daunting than I was expecting." — Previous Date Night Participant
Just because you’re partner is out of town (or only in your imagination), doesn’t mean you can’t learn the skills for epic, ever-evolving intimacy.
($14 if you’re coming solo)
A 90-minute workshop (Sept 12th at 7pm CT) where you’ll learn how to communicate about intimacy in a way that is playful, fun, and connective:
ask for what you want in a way that gets the other person excited (rather than defensive)
give feedback or setting a boundary without shutting anyone down
debrief & reconnect afterward so, even if you are never doing that again, you feel closer than before and the next time is even better
You’ll leave with a process you can use over and over again, on every Date Night, with any person, but also any time you need to communicate about something sensitive. You’ll also receive the recording, so you can go through the workshop as many times as you like.
"I was nervous going in, because I haven't done a lot of work like this. But the way [Kari] set it up made it feel easy and straightforward, while taking us deep… It was surprisingly fun. Way less daunting than I was expecting." — Previous Date Night Participant
How to communicate about intimacy in a way that is playful, fun, and connective. We all know there are two ways of talking about intimacy: one that feels awkward and dry and vulnerable, and one that makes your imagination swim with delicious images and heats your skin. We’re doing this the second one, from start to finish.
You’ll learn:
A process you can use over and over again, on every Date Night, but also any time you need to communicate about something sensitive. Asking, giving, receiving, negotiating, debriefing and reconnecting afterwards are the skills we need for almost all hard conversations you'll ever have with your partner or loved ones.
You’ll leave with:
"I was nervous going in, because I haven't done a lot of work like this. But the way [Kari] set it up made it feel easy and straightforward, while taking us deep… It was surprisingly fun. Way less daunting than I was expecting."
— Previous Date Night Participant
You won’t regret it:
You might have tried something like this before, but it didn’t work out…
Which is why we’ll slow things way down, so you can see where and why things have been getting crunchy.
What was an impenetrable barrier to hot & heavy intimacy becomes a speed bump.
Why I created this workshop
I’m Kari Kinkead — coach, embodiment facilitator — and I made ALL the mistakes in relationship and eroticism so you don’t have to.
But after learning the hard way, I now know that a partnership full of laughter and thrill and long, heart-stopping looks is something you can build… without years of therapy. In fact, with a few basic skills, agreements, and attitude adjustments, the spark and playfulness can return to a relationship in days.
For a long time, that felt SO out of reach to me. At times, if I’m being honest, I was on the edge of despair and resignation… So I’m offering this workshop to not just teach the skills, but to change the narrative:
Enjoying a blazing sex life for years is not a lottery that only a lucky few win. It’s available to ALL of us. We just have to know where to start.
The intimacy you crave is not as far away as you think.
A 90-minute workshop (Sept 12th at 7pm CT) where you’ll learn how to communicate about intimacy in a way that is playful, fun, and connective:
ask for what you want in a way that gets your partner excited (rather than defensive)
give feedback or setting a boundary without shutting anyone down
debrief & reconnect afterward so, even if you are never doing that again, you feel closer than before and the next time is even better
You’ll leave with a process you can use over and over again, on every Date Night, but also any time you need to communicate about something sensitive. You’ll also receive the recording, so you can go through the workshop as many times as you like.
"I was nervous going in, because I haven't done a lot of work like this. But the way [Kari] set it up made it feel easy and straightforward, while taking us deep… It was surprisingly fun. Way less daunting than I was expecting." — Previous Date Night Participant
A 90-minute workshop (Sept 12th at 7pm CT) where you’ll learn how to communicate about intimacy in a way that is playful, fun, and connective:
ask for what you want in a way that gets the other person excited (rather than defensive)
give feedback or setting a boundary without shutting anyone down
debrief & reconnect afterward so, even if you are never doing that again, you feel closer than before and the next time is even better
You’ll leave with a process you can use over and over again, on every Date Night, with any person, but also any time you need to communicate about something sensitive. You’ll also receive the recording, so you can go through the workshop as many times as you like.
"I was nervous going in, because I haven't done a lot of work like this. But the way [Kari] set it up made it feel easy and straightforward, while taking us deep… It was surprisingly fun. Way less daunting than I was expecting." — Previous Date Night Participant